Real Heroes vs. Sports Heroes

Today the Miami Herald ran their annual pro andthe weekly church bulletin and the monthly
college football special edition. It was an amazing thingnewsletter-- something that required many late hours
to see and hold-- it could easily replace light dumbbellsat home on a manual typewriter. Since this was long
for a workout. It had 6 sections, 74-pages with fullbefore the computer age, frequent last minute
color/full depth covers of serious, stoic players. Onlychanges meant using lots of Wite-Out and laborius
one guy was frowning this time-- probably becauseretyping into the wee hours of the morning to
he was a college player and wasn't getting paidprepare the "mimeograph" stencil for printing. Yet, her
copious amounts of money yet. Daunte Culpepper,son never heard her complain. She was always
the new Dolphins quaterback was almost smilingcheerful right up to the end when a heart attack
which is understandable since he has a lot on his mindfinally killed her through the side effects of muscle
right now considering the still questionable strength ofatrophy brought on by the stress of living for
the repair to his devastating knee injury (something25-years with useless legs.In all deepest sincerity,
local TV still likes to show over and over again andMVB presents the first "Thelma" award to David and
something we still can't watch). Now don't get usSherrone Jenkins, parents of their slain 9-year-old
wrong, the staff at MVB loves football. We believe itdaughter Sherdavia. Cut down on July 1st in a
is the nearly perfect game that combines suspense,shootout between thugs in a Liberty Square public
action, brute strength and violence with athleticismhousing complex, Sherdavia, a bright-eyed chess
and balletic beauty. But that doesn't mean we aren'tchampion and a student who aced her FCAT test,
tired of seeing athletes made into heroes. It is ourwas destined for greatness. How her parents were
contention that our community should also allocateable to continue on continuing on was an amazing
time and media space for the unsung heroes, thething to see as the media covered the story. Living in
ones "who live lives of quiet desperation," who getthe projects is a day-to-day struggle. Keeping a
up every morning to go to work to make endsfamily together compounds the difficulty. We learned
meet, who struggle to keep a family togetherthat the Jenkinses were able to do this and more by
despite working for minimum wage. ABC Newsguiding their children by example. We remember
recognizes the worthy in their Friday "Person of thereading that Mr. Jenkins, a security guard, first heard
Week." The Miami Herald and local TV could do theabout the shooting at work. Not having a car, he had
same. These kind of awards and recognition are notto walk and take busses back home. In the
only good for the spirits of those being honored,one-and-a-half hours it took him to get home all he
they're good for us too because they remind us, ifcould think about was what he might find there. In
nothing else, that someone a lot like us-- maybethe aftermath and under the media spotlight the
even someone who is worse off than we are-- canparents showed uncommon composure and Mr.
make the effort to not only keep on keeping on butJenkins in particular humbled us all with his
takes it a step further by giving something back tooff-the-cuff eloquence. Since that time through the
the community.With that in mind, we would like to"kindness of strangers" and Mr. Jenkins' boyhood
bring recognition to those in our community whofriend, U.S Rep. Kendrick Meek, the family has gotten
really deserve it. We can't gurantee an award eacha second chance at having a happy and fulfilling life:
week but when we are reminded by one or morethey now have a home of their own, a duplex with a
people who continue to "put up the good fight," youlawn and trees and a front porch far from the
can bet they will be recognized with a "Thelmaprojects. Now, only time and their faith and the
Award." Named in honor of the mother of one of oureffort they put in every day to get out of bed and
staffers, this remarkable woman recieved herget along will help them distance themselves from
recognition in the late fifties when the Miami Newswhat once was to what can be.The Miami Herald has
(the long gone but not forgotten afternoon paper)created a commendable multi-media site that includes
ran a pictorial on her. Readers discovered that shea timeline of articles with still photos, video, and
had given birth to two boys. The second one died atmusic. It is quite moving. To see it, please click
17-months in her arms from complications due tohere.Except in terms of reaching a larger number of
cerebral palsy. Less than a year later she caught theviewers, the "Thelma" award is not so different from
polio virus and was never able to walk again withoutthe ABC News "Person of the Week." It comes with
braces and crutches. Her husband died when ourno financial honorarium but in a case like this, an
staffer was only 14-years-old. Without a car andaward as such is little more than meaningless
"depending on the kindness of strangers," life gotself-referential hubris on our part without attaching
tough. Still, her son reports that she never complainedmoney to help the family along. So, if you want to
and was in fact cheerful throughout her life. Despiteextend a helping hand to this deserving family, please
her handicap, she was for years the neighborhoodjoin us by writing checks out to David and Sherrone
organizer for the March of Dimes and MuscularJenkins, C/O Audra D.S. Burch, South Correspondent,
Dystrophy where she made sure volunteers wentMiami Herald, One Herald Plaza, Miami, FL 33132.
door-to-door soliciting money to fight those diseases.Please enclose the check and any personal
Despite all the bad deals life handed out to her, shecorrespondence to the parents in a separate
still managed to not only hang onto her faith, butenvelope so that it can be given to the family
gave large amounts of her time to her church as itsunopened.D.C. Copeland is a writer and award-winning
kindergarten secretary where she earned a smallartist. When visiting Copeland's personal website and
salary that was able to keep food on the table and ablog you will discover that Wayne Cochran is the
roof over their heads. The church got the best partPatron Saint and that many people consider it to be
of the deal because Thelma would volunteer to write"The Rodney Dangerfield of Blogs.